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Qualifications of Overseers
(Elders-Bishops-Deacons)

    

Qualifications of Overseers

Introduction: The apostle Paul instructed Timothy to teach the Christians in Ephesus to conduct themselves as members of the Lord's church. The church needs to emphasize prayer ( 2: 1,2). Men and women have distinct roles in the church (2: 8-15). The church is to be led by overseers (3:1-7). Therefore, the church needs to understand the qualifications and work of these overseers.

Let's note that congregations of God's people are to be organized. Acts 14: 23- elders (plural), another name for overseers.  (Titus 1: 5) -appointing elders in every city was part of setting things in order. Second, the Holy Spirit makes one an elder (acts 20: 28 ). He does this by listing the necessary qualifications and describing their duties. This teaches us the only scriptural way one becomes an elder. One is an elder only if he meets the qualifications and is appointed to the work. A congregation calling someone an elder by appointing him does not make him one unless he meets those qualifications. Lastly, because of their work, these men must have high qualifications. But these are attainable; otherwise, the Holy Spirit would not have given them as being absolutely essential. Men in the 1st century were found who met these requirements so men can meet them today; it is not impossible. They were not looking for perfect men but ones who possessed these characteristics to a high degree.

Sermon text: 1 Timothy 3: 1-7; Titus 1: 5-11

Body:

1.  Qualifications

as we begin, we must realize these qualifications are not arbitrary, but all are necessary for one to carry out the work of an overseer.

1)  (Verse 1) very important! First, an elder or overseer is to be a man, a male. Throughout history (patriarchal, mosaical, and now Christians), God has desired male spiritual leadership. This in no way implies male superiority. This is just man's God-given role. Next, we see from this verse how important it is to desire or aspire to this work. He does this by obtaining, through much effort and growth, these qualities necessary for carrying out the duties of an elder. Verse, the voluntary nature is seen. He is willing to do this good work ( 1 Peter 5: 2 ). If this characteristic is not present, he will unlikely put in the long hours needed. As one wrote describing this qualification, this person is so anxious for the church to be what God desires that his heart is set upon laboring in service for the savior.

2)  (Verse 2 ) These qualifications can be categorized as physical and spiritual in one sense—physical—a male; married, with children. One cannot be a male to a degree; one is either a male or not, likewise with being married and having children. Other qualities one must possess to a certain degree, such as holiness and gentleness. These qualities must be very noticeable in his life. Also, note the word "must" in verse two.

a)  Blameless- not sinless, but above reproach; Not open to censure; One against whom no evil accusation can be sustained. This is so important! For example, when trying to lead an erring member back or disciplining an unfaithful member. That person could say “look at your life. You are no better than me”

b)  Husband of one wife- must have no more than one living wife. If his wife passes away and he remarries, he is still the husband of one wife. If the scripturally divorced and remarried, he is the husband of one wife. His former wife is no longer his wife in any respect. Otherwise, he would be married to two women at the same time period, and polygamy is sinful. But it may not always be wise to appoint a man who has been divorced and remarried. Are there legitimate questions about the divorce? Was he in any way guilty of contributing to the wife's unfaithfulness? These are points to consider. 

An elder (or deacon) wife is to meet specific qualifications. He cannot serve in that position if she does not meet these qualifications.

(Verse 11) The wives of both offices- elders or deacons. Chapter 3 deals with both works. It would be beyond reason to believe he gives strict qualifications for deacons' wives and none for elders. Especially since the elder's work requires a great deal more responsibility.

reverent- not frivolous or flippant, serious about her Christianity and her role as a wife. She understands that this work is important and supports her husband in every way.

Not a slanderer-one who utters false statements to harm someone's reputation.  “Whoever hides hatred has lying lips, and whoever spreads slander is a fool” Proverbs 10: 18.

Faithful in all things—to the Lord, to her husband, and to her children. The importance of elders' and deacons' wives being faithful in all things is seen in their carrying out of the God-given responsibilities and roles scripture assigns them.

c)  An elder must be temperate and steady, self-controlled, able to think clearly, aware, and watchful (Acts 20: 28 ).

d)  An elder must be sober-minded, not frivolous or childish, but self-restrained; use good sense; and take his work very seriously (Hebrews 13: 12 ). His decisions are to be made wisely and not based on emotions. His decisions must be made objectively, not prejudiced in any way.

e)  An elder must be of good behavior- orderly, Well-mannered, and courteous; Not rude even when provoked; Dignified- not slovenly. He must be someone you would want to follow- tactful in his dealings with people.

f)  Hospitable- He needs to possess the degree to which he influences others and be hospitable. Shows kindness and generosity to strangers and guests at home and in worship services. He should have Christians in his home regularly to get to know them better and discover their needs. Being hospitable naturally expresses brotherly love ( 1 peter 4: 8- 9 ). One area where an elder's wife plays such an important role. If his wife is not hospitable and not willing to open her home to the congregation, it would be challenging for him to be hospitable.

g)  An elder must be able to teach- must be able or skilled in teaching; A necessary part of feeding the flock. This implies that they wouldn’t have knowledge of the Bible and a willingness to impart that knowledge. Read Titus 1: 9-11. If a false doctrine is advocated in a public Bible study, in a sermon, in a song or prayer, or in a private setting, any elder present must be able to refute it. They must protect the flock (acts 20: 28- 31 ). The lack of this has led to many of the problems in the Lord’s church.

3)  (Verse 3 )

a)  not given to wine- must not partake of any beverage, especially alcoholic, which negatively affects his mind and body. Priests under the mosaical law were forbidden to use wine-(Leviticus 10: 9). All Christians are priests today. This analogy implies all priests (christians) must not use wine as a social recreational drink. An elder also was thought to exhibit the characteristics of those who have been drinking, rowdy, brawler, disorderly, uncontrolled (proverbs 20: 1 ).

b)  He is not violent- no violent outbursts—he doesn't fly off the handle—he is in control of his emotions. This does not mean he is passive- note what the apostle Paul did in Galatians 2: 4-5.

c)  Not greedy for money- not involved in dishonest or dishonorable businesses; All money gained is above question.

d)  Gentle- this is the opposite of domineering. He is considerate of people's feelings and willing to listen to others' opinions and ideas ( 2 Timothy 2: 24- 25 ).

e)  Not quarrelsome- not contentious; Doesn't go looking for trouble or a fight.

f)  Not covetous- doesn't long for things of the world- money or possessions. He should not live as to put more emphasis on material things than spiritual. You should live as an example to the flock. Elders need to lead the church in being liberal givers.

4)  (Verses 4- 5 ) Consider Titus 1: 6 also.

a)  Rules well his own house- presides over his wife and children.  An insubordinate, bossy wife would disqualify him.  Children are to be in subjection with all reverence- how well has this elder brought them up to respect authority, especially god's authority? Has the elder brought them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord? This is more than just bringing them to services.

Titus 1: 6 adds faithful children.  This is the same word as is used in Revelation 2: 10. Also, the same basic word (noun) and 2 Corinthians 6: 15. His children are to be Christians. The phrase not accused of dissipation (debauchery) or insubordination indicates older children.

May an elder have only one believing child and still be qualified? In several passages, the plural children is used when only one is indicated. Does raising more than one child to be faithful Christians help one to be a better elder? yes. This is just an opinion. What if later, the child becomes unfaithful? If the child quits the church and becomes unfaithful right after leaving home, this would seem to indicate he just went to satisfy his parent's wishes. Unlikely the father would be a good elder in this instance. On the other hand if one is faithful for a number of years after leaving home and then becomes unfaithful, it is unlikely the parents are to blame. What has to be remembered Is this- if an elder's children are unfaithful, will the members trust their families' problems with him?

5)  (Verse 6 )

a)  not a novice—this means he is not a new convert. He has not recently become a Christian. Green lumber that has not had time to cure in season, when used to build a house, will eventually buckle and cause problems. A new convert is likely to be unable to handle stress and the responsibility of being an elder. Also, putting a new Christian into such a position of authority can lead to pride, and this can be his downfall.

6)  (Verse 7)

a)  having a good testimony- his conduct, both present and to some extent his past, must be such that even non-Christians respect him. They must regard him as upstanding and of good morals, a name without any stain attached to it. Titus Chapter 1 gives additional qualifications. He is not self-willed, not obstinate or arrogant, not stubborn, and not always insisting on having his way. This can lead to huge problems.

b)  Not quick-tempered—not quick to get angry. This is necessary in an elder who has to deal with many different people.

c)  A lover of what is good- loves things noble and of a high moral character. Some examples would be whether he has sound religious books and papers, attends Gospel meetings and lectureships, engages in Mission works, and supports Preacher training schools... Colossians 3: 1,2.

d)  Just - he treats others fairly; Free from prejudice and partiality. His conduct is proper. 1 Thessalonians 2: 10-12

e)  holy- devoutly observes moral and spiritual obligations. Devoted to god in his ways- puts god first!

 

 

 

 

    

 

January 26, 2025

Sermon prepared by Bobby Stafford

Prepared by Bobby Stafford

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